I have always noticed how people tend to use the ellipsis a lot during texting. However, I never gave it much importance because I thought that though people tend to write like that while texting, they don't when writing a formal text, or paper. After reading this article from Slate I liked the theory that the ellipsis mimics the same pauses we tend to make while talking. After reading other articles about modern messaging I noticed that the ellipsis isn't the only thing that is currently being abused of, and that mimics spoken language. Nevertheless, they aren't as exploited in other kinds of writing.
After recalling countless texting conversations with a friend of mine, I realized he uses the ellipsis a lot. I had previously noticed that he is the kind of person that vacillates throughout a conversation. Rather than expressing his idea fluently, he tends to make some (or many) pauses and say "emm" or "eeh" very frequently. Likewise, I have noticed he is a constant abuser of the ellipsis.as I now make the connection that he unconsiouly used the ellipsis as a replacement for the pauses he uses when he talks. On the other hand, I really don't abuse of the ellipsis a lot; rarely I employ them in my texting. Nonetheless, he made me realize that I abuse of the enter button. Instead of using periods, or the ellipsis I divide my texts or ideas by sending different texts. Rather than texting "hey, what are you doing? do you want yo go eat something? tell me...bye."
What are you doing?
do you want to go eat something?
tell me!
bye"
It seems annoying right? I don't exactly do it to that level, but I do send many messages dividing my phrases. I know that even though we both have weird texting patterns, I am certain we won't write like that when writing a book report at collage. Moreover, I read Cristina's Angel blog, and I quite disagreed with her. Though she agrees with the fact that "people of this time are writing as they would speak..." she doesn't agree with it, or acknowledge the fact that the ellipsis can be used to make a pause of ideas. There's a reason why they are also called suspension points. I know people nowadays are bewildered on how people text because the are channging the conventions and rules with what punctuation marks are used.
Just because the ellipsis isn't used in the way its strictly meant to be used, it doesn't mean its meaning can't change to adapt. Texting is the next most familiar register of writing after familiar and informal. Simply because it has never been used before, and is new and weird it, its no reason to not accept it as a new register. I don't agree with the ellipsis being used for everything or as a replacement of things like questions marks. But, if people don't over abuse them, or utilize them in formal writing pieces, I think there is no problem with it.



